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Ms. Rowan's Bio

I was born and raised in the Central Valley of California. After high school I joined the Army & served six and a half years on active duty. I spent most of My time in the military living in Germany & Belgium with a short tour in Kosovo. After the military I returned to the San Francisco Bay Area to finish school. I earned an AS in Behavioral Science & a BA in Women's, Gender, and Sexuality Studies. I am a certified Phlebotomist and, in addition to running My own business, I work two jobs providing harm reduction services to communities I feel honored to serve. I enjoy being outdoors, running, & am an avid reader often reading multiple books at once. Running is how I prefer to take my masochism, I've run several half marathons and intend to run many more. I also enjoy pain in the form of tattoos. I've collected several already and will be collecting many more. I spend much of My free time advocating for My community and am always impressed with pets who donate to My favorite non-profit and grassroots organizations. I'm also a dedicated dog Mom - My pup is My furbaby.


I have been kinky since before I knew the word kinky but I didn't start exploring intentional power exchange or My dominance until college. I have been fascinated by the ways in which people express & explore their sexuality for many years & I have learned that BDSM & Femme Domination is where My soul is fed.


I started My career as a Professional Dominatrix in 2014 in a well known house of domination in the San Francisco Bay Area. I have been an independent provider since March 2016. I am constantly seeking to refine My skills and learn more about how to connect with My pets in mutually beneficial ways. I intend to never stop learning and growing. I have sought advice and guidance from highly respected Dominas and continue to benefit from the knowledge they share.